Explanations On Marriage

Part II

By

The Man Who Saw God Face To Face

Raphael Okechukwu Nweze

Globes Of Living Fire

You are the sons of the Living God.

Man is spirit, not sand. Before God created man, He moulded an earthly garment for man. The Bible bears record that the body was formed from sand and could not move, until God breathed into the form. Out of spiritual blindness and ignorance, religious leaders teach that God created man from sand. This false teaching is the wok of spiritually blind and ignorant people, and it is like calling the night day or the day night.

Man was created when God breathed out. Man is breathe of life. He is spirit that came forth from God, just as spark of fire comes out of the fire. Therefore, we are the sons of living God .

Self-Division

When you light matches and bring it near a candle stick, the wick catches fire and start burning. If you bring the wick of another candle stick near the burning one, the new wick also catches fire and burns. Usually, people say that the second candle is lit. It the never occurs to them that it was the first fire that divides into two, as separate fire on each wick and candle.

Likewise, in spirit, one being can divide into two spirit beings. During and after the division, a bond, as a spiritual cord, continues to exist and link the two halves. The cord is so thin and subtle that the ordinary eyes do not, and cannot, see it. Yet, the cord is always present, irrespective of distance between the two halves.

The division of one spirit into two separate beings was demonstrated in the life of Adam. However, the Bible account was so simplified that much is not known about the spiritual details of the division.

Search And Experience

The purpose of life on earth is for people to gain knowledge, wisdom and experience. The purposes include gain in spiritual experience and mastery, which are unfortunately neglected by both secular and religious teachers and leaders. That is why many things are going wrong today. Man has developed all things, but failed to develop himself. He boasts of Computer Science, Physical Science, Chemical Science, Social Science, Political Science, etc, but has neglected the most important one, which is Spiritual Science.

The purpose, and experience, in earthly life also includes each spirit being searching for, and finding, its other half, called the “missing rib.”

At weddings or marriage ceremonies, people usually say one plus one, 1 + 1 = 1, when they supposed to say “half plus half,” ½ + ½ = 1, for a couple were first one person, before the one person separated into two persons, each as the compliment of the other.

In our everyday life, and in social relations, we notice that each person is eagerly, and silently, desiring and seeking somebody of opposite sex, who is his/her love, his/her soul mate, with whom he/she would experience perfect peace, love, happiness and satisfaction. Generally, the fulfillment seem to elude all of us. Even when one person appears to be the one you are searching for, suspicion, criticism and backbiting do not allow many to openly express their love. Majority of us live as hypocrite, expressing pretended peace.

For the time being, many are not marrying their true love or halves, due to general spiritual blindness and ignorance. That is the reason why marriage failure and family crisis are quite rampart, and on the increase. That is all the more reason why everybody should study Spiritual Science. Humanity still have much to learn, to hear and to do.

What is actually very important now for humanity is the ability and disposition to render selfless services, which is the first path way to the kingdom of heaven. The foolish thing many people do today is that they neglect this primary assignment to their own deceit and detriment.

Everybody should bear in mind that the fact that a person is not marrying his/her true mate is not an excuse to divorce or maltreat others.

Those who take to Spiritual Science may be able to find their true mates in this lifetime. Many others, who cannot find their soul mates, shall have the same restored to them when God’s kingdom becomes established, here on earth or in heaven.

Meaning Of Sex

Sex is the universal theory and practice of mixing two different things in order to produce another relevant thing. For example, you combine milk and beverage to produce tea, which is both good and relevant. Likewise, you combine various ingredients to make soup, which is a necessity.

Relevant Explanations About Sex
         Understand the following points:

1. The body has outlets as provided by God. That means that God foreknew that wastes and other things have to and need to be removed from the body.

2. When you are pressed, especially in the morning after waking up, you go to toilet to remove faeces. As well, you go out to urinate, because it is necessary. And when you exercise or do a heavy work, your body excretes sweat. You do all this and never call them sin. Likewise, you should not call it a sin when sperm leaves the body or when the menstrual blood flows in a woman.

3. Whenever saliva accumulates so much in your mouth, you spit it out. And when phlegm (cough substance) accumulates in your nose, you blow it out; just as you cough out mucous secretions out from your throat. If doing all these are not sin, then removing sperm or blood from the body is not a sin.

4. If you put a water bottle to the tap to collect water, immediately the water bottle is full, water will start overflowing to the ground. You do not call this a sin. Likewise, you should not call removing excess sperm or blood from the body a sin. Even if you do not remove it by yourself, you still see it coming out by itself, from time to time.

5. When excess sperm or blood is not removed from the body, it makes the body uneasy and restless. It disturbs the mind and would not allow to have peace of mind. It does not allow you to concentrate.

6. Sexual feelings and urge heighten when there is excessive sperm in the body. That means that even if you do not want to think about sex or fornication, you see yourself doing so by force, even when it is not your desire or action.

7. The feeling, idea or stigma that sex is bad and evil was caused by three sets of people.

a. One group were the priests, who were not spiritually awake, enlightened and experienced. They created the impression that sex is evil, especially in the hearts and minds of children and youths. The church wanted ready man power for services to the church. Therefore, they deceived young reverend ministers to go for celibacy. The result was that the antichrist used celibacy to stop/block the genealogy of Priests and Levites. Out of spiritual blindness and ignorance they welcome and ordain any person from any tribe or nation a reverend minister. Thereby, corrupting the priesthood, for God warned that it is not everybody that should be allowed to minister before Him.

b. The second groups were the parents or adults, who created bad impressions of sex in the hearts and mind of the youths, in order to control the youths and children. They wanted to discourage sex outside marriage and teenage pregnancy. The intention is good, but the approach is bad. How can the adults turn round to condemn sex when they enjoy it from time to time?

c. The third group was the society, because people were interfering in the private affairs and lives of others, by gossiping, backbiting, jealousy, greed and ignorance. These unwanted and unwarranted social evils have created more harm than good. It has led to so many cases of abortion because both parents and youngsters tried to cover up pre-mature sex and teenage pregnancy.

8. In spirit, sex is considered, seen as, one of the pleasures of life. For example, the female’s breast is seen in spirit as ‘bubbles of honey’ or ‘apples of pleasure,’ and not as something bad, sin or evil. It was made by a perfect and holy God.

9. The idea or belief that celibacy amounts to holiness is not true.

10. Marriage or no marriage does not make somebody holy.

11. Holiness comes from God. If the Holy Spirit is in you, you become holy. And if the Holy Spirit is not in you, you are not holy. Jacob married four wives. Yet, he is a holy man, a saint in heaven. On the other hand, the Devil is not married, and is unholy.

12. Laws of holiness were given to humanity in order to ensure cleanliness, because cleanliness is next to Godliness. A clean environment does not necessarily mean a holy environment. However, the Holy Spirit wants us to maintain cleanliness, so that the spirit of holiness will abide in us and around us.

13. You should know that sexual urge is a natural thing. Also, it is biological function, which is necessary for every normal human being and good for child birth. Many boys complain of having strong sexual urge. To many of them, it is like dying in silence. The ministers of God should know of this fact, as well as how to render guidance and counseling services.

14. If sex were a sin, then know it that having sexual intercourse even by parents is also a sin, even a more grievous sin. For sin is a sin, whether committed by a man or a child.

15. You should know that the body and spirit do not mix. They only co-exist. As such, things of the body do not affect the spirit, just as the things of spirit do not make the body more than what it is.

16. On masturbation by the males, you should know that the male sex organs, called testes, produce sperm from day to day. After a while, it accumulates to a disturbing level. If it is not removed from the body, it keeps the whole body on edge, sexy, even throughout the day. This thing happens daily, silently and actively. But once the sperm is released, the body becomes free and relaxed, and a person can more fully concentrate on whatever he is doing.

17. While it is not good to engage in masturbation by way of addiction or because of demonic possession, we should endeavour to grow in spirit, so as to be able to interpret the events of life.

18. In order to reduce or prevent cases of masturbation, humanity must take deliverance as compulsory and regulate what is eaten from day to day. Recently, complain was received about a man who was fond of masturbating. All we did at our prayer ministry was to perform deliverance on the man. The next time I met the complainant, the report I received was that the man has stopped masturbating.

19. Again, adults including ministers of God, have to re-assure the young ones that the changes taking place in their bodies are not evil or unnecessary. Be ready to give the biological, physical, psychological and spiritual explanations on sex whenever necessary.

20. At the same time, you must tell the young ones that there is need for self-control and general discipline. Sexual immorality must not be allowed in the society. The reason is that sex is like steps that makes spiritual progress easy and fast. On the negative side, sex outside marriage renders a person useless, even without many knowing it.

21. Those who promote pornographic displays should stop doing so, for such acts are not acceptable to the spirit.

Advantages Of Sex

Much has been said about the bad aspects of sex, to such an extent that people are, indirectly, blaming God for sex, while they are busy enjoying it. Often, little or nothing is said about the benefits it. Most of the religious leaders always say bad things about the women folk. It is really disappointing that they do this. The fact is that a woman is a blessing to the society, just as the man is also a blessing. After God created Adam and Eve, He blessed them. Therefore, man is a blessing, just as the woman is also a blessing.

However, note that outside marriage, sex can be very devastating, causing ill-health, demonic possession, devilish manipulations, business failure, marriage crisis, social crimes and spiritual downfall.

In this writing, learn the advantages:

1. It improves a person’s level of vibration and promotes good spiritual development, if performed with one’s soul mate (life partner) only.

2. It promotes long life.

3. It is a form of companionships and fellowship.

4. It is one of the pleasures of life.

5. It relieves so much stress. Many find relief (peace, calmness, freedom) after doing it.

6. It makes you sleep very well. The muscles become relaxed and free of tension, stress and strain.

7. It burns calories of energy, and thereby prevents obesity.

8. It improves the cardiovascular health, by keeping the heart muscles in good working condition.

9. It increases body immunity, and therefore prevents diseases and infection.

10. It increases blood circulation. By so doing, it removes toxins and waste materials as the blood flows very well.

11. It improves overall fitness; makes you physically fit, mentally alert, emotionally balanced, and spiritually sound and generally okay.

12. It is a good form of exercise.

13. Multiplication in the form of population explosion is possible, as God intended.

27 So God created man in His own image; in the image of God He created him; male and female He created them. 28 Then God blessed them, and God said to them, "Be fruitful and multiply; fill the earth and subdue it; have dominion over the fish of the sea, over the birds of the air, and over every living thing that moves on the earth." Genesis 1:27-28

Why Sexual Immorality Is Bad

Sexual immorality is bad because people are at different levels of spiritual vibrations. Some vibrations are compatible, (i.e. very good to each other), just like people with compatible (matching) genotype and blood group. Many vibrations are incompatible, (i.e. not very good to each other), just like people who cannot be friends because they are at war with each other. The worst form of freedom is uncontrolled freedom. Therefore, sexual immorality is an abomination, because it will lead to disorder, crisis and iniquities. It makes people and their character to be out of control. Besides, it produces spiritual death, downfall and destruction.

Ways To Reduce Sexual Urge

1. For the men, some soft drink, are very good for reducing sexual urge. A person may take a bottle a week or divide one bottle into two intakes of halves. All bodies are not the same. By increasing or reducing the amount of intake, a person shall be able to find out what amount is good for his body.

2. It may be necessary to reduce sugary substances eaten, like banana, tea, etc.

3. Ministers of God, who are spiritually gifted, should conduct more spiritual research on how best to reduce or control sexual urge. It is not a thing of shame to do so. Also, condemning people, without providing enough solution, is not good.

4. Find out more from doctors and nurses.

5. Etc.

Very Important Points And Corrections

1. At times, we live the main issues of life and concern ourselves with the shadows, with irrelevancies. By so doing, we tend to create more problems instead of solving existing ones. People should know that our body actions and reactions are caused by the type of food you usually eat. In other words, excessive sexual urge that leads to masturbation can be minimized or stopped just by eating the right kind of foods.

2. One mistake humanity have made over past years is that we feed everybody with the same kind of food. This is very bad and dangerous. The body system changes as people grow up. That means that the food requirements of a newly born baby are quite different that of a toddler. The nutritional needs of children are quite different from those of youths. The body needs of a youth are quite different form the foodstuff needed by a young man. While a young man can manage to eat every type of food available, an adult would find such meals damaging and uncomfortable. Humanity, especially the women and cooks, should learn how to moderate the food intakes of people as individuals grow from age to age.

Is Masturbation A Sin?
         Much depends on what you mean by masturbation and what is causing the masturbation. Before you can condemn somebody for committing a sexual sin, you should first examine the case physically, biologically, psychologically and spiritually. Physically, the sex drive in a man or woman increases with time. But, a wise person learns to have self-control. That is why man is wiser than animals. Biologically, the body organs are doing what God intended them to do. Therefore, having sex urge is not a sin. It is natural thing. Psychologically, a person may be affected by the ups and down of life, such that he starts misbehaving. The person’s normal behavior would restore when the causative factors are removed or taken care of. Spiritually, demons, marine spirits, ghosts, witches and evil potencies can take possession of somebody, like in the case of Mary Magdalene. Jesus solved her case of adultery just by performing deliverance on her. Do not be quick to condemn somebody, but be knowledgeable enough to guide others. Above all, encourage people to grow in spirit, because by so doing they will be able to avoid many temptations and hindrances.

Why And How Masturbation Is Sin
         Masturbation is a sin if the following conditions obtain:

1. Whenever it is inspired, motivated and encouraged by evil spirits, demons, mermaids, ghosts, witches and forces of darkness. In that case, the person concerned should go for deliverance, so that the evil spirits shall not lead him into greater evil.

2. For what is bad cannot, and does not, yield what is good, just as a bad tree does not and cannot bear good fruits. What comes from evil is evil. That is why all the children begotten by the fallen Angels were called evil spirits. There is no Holy Spirit in them. And their works confirm them as evil, for they are always bent on stealing, killing and destructing of lives and whatever that is good. And all the souls stolen by them end up in the hell fire.

3. Masturbation becomes a sin when people engage in it out of lust. Lust is a type of addiction, which simply means excessive desire for irrelevant things of life. There is difference between doing something out of necessity and doing the same thing out of lust. For human being to drink water because he is thirsty is good. But for the same person to go stay inside water, always, because he wants to be drinking water is bad and unacceptable.

More Questions And Answers

1. Why should girls always dress up, by covering their body?

The fact is that men are easily moved by the body of the females. Therefore, it is necessary for girls to always dress up, in order to reduce/avoid temptation. It is not good for girls to wear show back, half-shoulder, mini or transparent clothes. Likewise, excessive make-ups like reddish lipstick is not good.

2. Is it proper for a wife to be cursing her husband?

3. It is not proper. Besides, this is sin against oneself. It is like somebody polluting the water he has to drink. The curses would cause enmity, hatred, crisis, business failure and general setback. It is equally bad for the man to be abusing the wife or for parents to be cursing their children.

4. What do you have to say about women who are disobedient to the husband?

5. Such women end up inside the hell fire. The same thing applies to children, youths or subordinates who refuse to obey their parents, adults or seniors. Be warned.

6. Why are children and youths becoming more disrespectful and prone to evil nature? The fact about life is that what you give to the society is what you get from humanity. The womenfolk should return to the house and take care of the children. Currently majority of the women are engaged in all kinds of work or self-employment. The bad effect is that parents no longer give adequate attention to children, who are left to roam the street, watch all kinds of bad videos and associate with evil-minded vagabonds. It makes no sense for parents to go out make money and return home only to be killed by their lawless children.

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